Doa perempuan lebih makbul daripada lelaki kerana sifat penyayang yang lebih kuat dari lelaki. Ketika ditanya kepada Rasulullah akan hal tersebut, jawapan baginda: "Ibu lebih penyayang daripada bapa dan doa orang yang penyayang tidak akan sia-sia."

Salam alaikum. :)
This is such a general known knowledge. I mean, everyone knows that the doa from a mother is very powerful. It could change your life and fate.

So, in my opinion, a mother should really really really take care of the words that come out from her mouth. I mean, if you keep repeating bad things for your child, it might just be a doa in which could be fulfiled by Allah. Mothers should really like, think before they say. You never know if that time, all the malaikat are saying ameen for the words you said. And what happen is at that point of time, you were cursing and saying bad things for your child? Even if you are red with anger, try not to say bad things for your child cause it might just be a doa for them.

No, I'm not advising cause I know, I'm not the right person to say or to advice anyone. Who am I compared to all of the mothers outside. All mothers are holistic people. They took a great deal in bringing you up and so. I salute all mothers. You people are just great.

Just treat this as something from a weak, unknowledged 17-year-old girl's perspective.

Allah ma'ana.